I had a nightmare – I was networking!
That’s it.
And this wasn’t even the first time. I mostly dread going to large gatherings.
But you know what I don’t dread? Having a 1:1 conversation with someone.
I love it! 😍
So here’s my hack (inner monologue):
❌ I’m not here to “network”
✅ I’m here to learn something about one person – anyone
❌ I won’t bury myself in my phone
✅ I’ll stand upright and be open to conversations, or walk right up to a group
❌ I won’t give one word answers
✅ I will be succinct, and leave room to continue
❌ I’m not totally useless
✅ I’ll offer help, every chance I get. And let people know I’m open to work.
❌ I don’t need to be the life of the party
✅ There is no party*